You Don’t Have to Hate What You’re Doing to Want More

Aug 04, 2025
The VA Connection: You Don’t Have to Hate What You’re Doing to Want More

I used to push through.

Say yes when I wanted to say no.

Take on too much, ignore my limits, and then wonder why I felt drained and resentful.

Know what I mean? Not anymore.

These days, I live by a simple rule: I don’t do things that make me mad.

It took me a long time to realize that saying no doesn’t make you selfish. Honoring your own limits doesn’t mean letting people down. And that choosing you doesn’t mean choosing others less.

In fact, putting me first gives me the energy, space, and clarity to show up better for everyone else.

Becoming a Virtual Assistant helped me build a life that actually supports that.

  • I choose how I spend my time.
  • I choose who I work with.
  • I choose my life on purpose.

And that one shift? It changed everything.

If you’ve been saying yes when you really mean no…If you’ve been feeling stretched, resentful, or just plain tired…

You don’t need to keep pushing through. You can choose differently. 

Start by choosing peace. You’ll be amazed where it leads.